This year we decided NOT to travel for the BIG feast. We stayed here close to home and spent thanksgiving day with our wonderful friends Frank and Toni. It was a great time and some really great food. But most of all Thanksgiving has brought me to thinking about all the things that my family is blessed with. We have hit a fairly humbling time in our lives as many people have in this economic slump. This has pushed me to realize how blessed we truly are. I love that our Father in Heaven gives us reminders just when they are needed. I have really come to view this unemployment as a blessing in our lives as we have pulled close together as a family and are spending countless hours together working, playing, and just going through daily stuff. I have recently (usually while jogging on my eliptical trainer) sat and thought about how lucky I am to have a husband who I have always been able to depend on for our every need. I have such faith in him that I know that things are going to work out for the better for us. I know that he would not accept anything less. He is my best friend. We really do have fun together and get along so well. I have been so blessed to have a man who is so dedicated to the gospel. We both can come together and believe in our cause, for our children and for each other. I was talking to my youngest sister who is single and dating and it made me think about what qualities you should seek in a man to marry. There is only really one that comes to mind when I think of what is truly important. It is a testimony of our church. It is believing together. I truly believe that if you have this then all the other stuff falls into the background. I am so grateful to have a husband that strives for all the things that I strive for ...and is super macho and hot, (because he came home from the turkey bowl with a big cut under his eye and a black eye), but not to macho to ask our heavenly father for help and to believe that he guides our family in all that we need and want in our lives.